Hay Bananas, How are you guys doing! I hope you're all doing good! I know I am I'm feeling pumped! lol not literally... :) Ok well anyway I decided to do my list of top 10 things that turn me off in Guys and these are all "Christian" men (or so they say) that I've personally encountered so nothing secondary here. It's is inspired by Pastor Justino's list of top 10 turn-offs in girls, this was quite fun to do so hope you enjoy it too!
Note I urge you not to take this too seriously...Or maybe you should... Hmmm =]
1. The Intellectual
2. The Weakling
Woman: Hey what do you want to do today?
Man: I...I. I don't know, how about I just play here on my Play Station, is that okay with you? Or should I stop, what do want me to do?
Woman: Uhm..[dazed & confused] Ookay how about we go through some Bible scriptures?
Man: I...I don't know any Bible scriptures, do I have to read out loud?
This guy says he's a man of God *side eye*...The hints in the name...MAN! that means BE one!
3. The NarcissistNow this guy loves himself, but not in a particularly obvious way. I mean he's after the "finer" things in life. He has the gold chains, the big car, the finest suits, latest trend, the house, basically he has it "all" And on top of that he's a pretty boy that sort of loves Jesus- Some may say CHECKMATE, he's a winner. For me not so much. I'm not saying it's wrong to have a few things but when those 'few things' becomes a whole lotta things he's obsessed with buying... You see where I'm going with this.
this verse says it all.
"Then Jesus, looking at him, loved him, and said to him, “One thing you lack: Go your way, sell whatever you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, take up the cross, and follow Me.” But he was sad at this word, and went away sorrowful, for he had great possessions.
Then Jesus looked around and said to His disciples, “How hard it is for those who have riches to enter the kingdom of God!” And the disciples were astonished at His words. But Jesus answered again and said to them, “Children, how hard it is for those who trust in riches to enter the kingdom of God! It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.”
4. The domineering man
5. The CompromiserThe title is pretty harsh but this man needs to sit down. Trying to comprimise with God, I think not mate. This type of guy is normally one that has been brought up in a Christian home of some sort. Half, if not the majority of the time, he knows exactly what sin is and it's consequences but he still does not live accordingly. This type of guy is more common among rappers, singers, celebrities etc. These guys are a living contradiction and on top of that they'll have the nerve to try and argue with you about whether or not what they're doing is sin or not. SMH
6. The fearsome manThis man closely relates to Guy #2 at the top, he does not trust God all that much and he constantly needs reassurance from people. He's known to run away from challenges and typically does not like to witness or use his talents for the glory of God. He likes to talk the talk, but when it comes to the walking, he suddenly has no legs. Definitely a no-no
7. The ouch-less manWeird name huh? I call them ouch-less men because they seem almost perfect - Ouch-less. But he closely resembles The domineering man but with a little more charm. This ouch-less man has a lot of pride and hides his fears and mistakes vigorously. Everything seems okay but he gets easily offended when asked a question about himself or gets some constructive criticism (ladies this isn't to say that you should be the one to give him that criticism lol).
Stuff that makes you go hmmm.
8. The Deep brotha
The deep brotha sometimes likes poetry and is interested in saving the world and giving CPR to fish... Yah.
I met this guy on Outreach once and he scared the living cells out of me, I mean he talked like he was working for the FBI or something - He was convinced the 'white government' was out to get "us black people"... Scary stuff