Top 10 Guy Turn-Off's





Hay Bananas, How are you guys doing! I hope you're all doing good! I know I am I'm feeling pumped! lol not literally... :) Ok well anyway I decided to do my list of top 10 things that turn me off in Guys and these are all "Christian" men (or so they say) that I've personally encountered so nothing secondary here. It's is inspired by Pastor Justino's list of top 10 turn-offs in girls, this was quite fun to do so hope you enjoy it too!
Note I urge you not to take this too seriously...Or maybe you should... Hmmm =]

1. The Intellectual

Have you ever tried to have a conversation with someone who is supposedly a Christian? but they oppose every word of God? More importantly have you met a guy that's like this? They're normally those who have studied Philosophy or science or something and more often than not, they tend to be Atheists, but they twist everything in the Bible to suit their needs. Let me tell you, they're worse that in the sense that they have no regard to how you feel. They're nice and seem really down to earth at first but then as soon as someone mentions religion, they're quick to jump into some deep heat debate. These guys are normally the philosophers, the "intellectuals", the "smart" ones... Oh please give me a break. They know nothing! If you meet a guy like this...Run and run fast and don't look back!

2. The Weakling

This guy is not to be mistaken for a guy that is quiet-natured or shy or nothing like that. Listen, this guy doesn't know if he wants to wear the trousers or not. He does not take any initiative and he constantly comes to YOU for guidance, I mean he has no vision and is basically not a leader or he has no confidence in the position God has appointed him to have- Example

Woman: Hey what do you want to do today?
Man: I...I. I don't know, how about I just play here on my Play Station, is that okay with you? Or should I stop, what do want me to do?
Woman: Uhm..[dazed & confused] Ookay how about we go through some Bible scriptures?
Man: I...I don't know any Bible scriptures, do I have to read out loud?

This guy says he's a man of God *side eye*...The hints in the name...MAN! that means BE one!

3. The Narcissist

Now this guy loves himself, but not in a particularly obvious way. I mean he's after the "finer" things in life. He has the gold chains, the big car, the finest suits, latest trend, the house, basically he has it "all" And on top of that he's a pretty boy that sort of loves Jesus- Some may say CHECKMATE, he's a winner. For me not so much. I'm not saying it's wrong to have a few things but when those 'few things' becomes a whole lotta things he's obsessed with buying... You see where I'm going with this.
this verse says it all.

"Then Jesus, looking at him, loved him, and said to him, “One thing you lack: Go your way, sell whatever you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, take up the cross, and follow Me.” But he was sad at this word, and went away sorrowful, for he had great possessions.  
Then Jesus looked around and said to His disciples, “How hard it is for those who have riches to enter the kingdom of God!” And the disciples were astonished at His words. But Jesus answered again and said to them, “Children, how hard it is for those who trust in riches to enter the kingdom of God! It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.”
Mark 10:21-25


4. The domineering man

Now this fella thinks he owns you, he thinks he does things the 'traditional' way and the way God intended, when in all honesty his insecurity and lack of faith in God means that he if isn't strict you'll fail. They believe in bending their women into the shape that they want them to be. More than often these men turn out to be abusers in worse case scenarios. If you ever, EVER meet him. Ruuuuuuunnnn, get out of the room, place, venue or wherever you may be

5. The Compromiser

The title is pretty harsh but this man needs to sit down. Trying to comprimise with God, I think not mate. This type of guy is normally one that has been brought up in a Christian home of some sort. Half, if not the majority of the time, he knows exactly what sin is and it's consequences but he still does not live accordingly. This type of guy is more common among rappers, singers, celebrities etc. These guys are a living contradiction and on top of that they'll have the nerve to try and argue with you about whether or not what they're doing is sin or not. SMH

6. The fearsome man

This man closely relates to Guy #2 at the top, he does not trust God all that much and  he constantly needs reassurance from people. He's known to run away from challenges and typically does not like to witness or use his talents for the glory of God. He likes to talk the talk, but when it comes to the walking, he suddenly has no legs. Definitely a no-no

7. The ouch-less man

Weird name huh? I call them ouch-less men because they seem almost perfect - Ouch-less. But he closely resembles The domineering man but with a little more charm. This ouch-less man has a lot of pride and hides his fears and mistakes vigorously. Everything seems okay but he gets easily offended when asked a question about himself or gets some constructive criticism (ladies this isn't to say that you should be the one to give him that criticism lol).
Stuff that makes you go hmmm.

8. The Deep brotha

He is the self-proclaimed righteous man and seems like a  very deep person. He wants to know every little detail about your walk with Christ, he closely resembles #1 The Intellectual guy and over-analyses everything, he'll try and find an explanation from the smallest things like the meaning of the word 'THE', I mean really? He also like the Ouch-less man finds himself offended when questioned, like you have the nerve to question his salvation or somethin' lol. He focuses on the ritual side of things, rather than the most important - Jesus Christ.
The deep brotha sometimes likes poetry and is interested in saving the world and giving CPR to fish... Yah.
I met this guy on Outreach once and he scared the living cells out of me, I mean he talked like he was working for the FBI or something - He was convinced the 'white government' was out to get "us black people"... Scary stuff

9. The Confused man

This man believes in every religion under the sun. He will do anything you tell him just to get your approval, again very similar to #2 the Weakling.


10. Jesus-less

I think the title is pretty self-explanatory... Well I saved the best for last and this is my ultimate turn-off. And that is a man that is Jesus-less.  This man does not accept Jesus Christ as their personal Lord and Saviour so therefore I cannot accept him.