Just a thought

Right so I reaaallyy want to get married and be a stay at home mum with an awesome blog. And have like a cool camera [Nikon D5000] and just capture all the moments spent together. Maybe live on the countryside? with a garden that stretches out into an open plain, filled with flowers and stuff. Oof and also a library somewhere in the house - No T.V though [yuch] and there'd be handmade pillow covers I made myself and the most comfiest of chairs you'd ever sat on, and walls we'd painted ourselves... Heck we'd build the whole house ourselves. I want a husband in love with Christ, unable to be pulled apart from Christ. Our household to be built on Christ.

I want to be like the woman described in Proverbs 31:10-31. Hard working, gentle and noble and still looks good whilst doing it lol. Dedicated to all God-fearing women! And as we strive to be like Christ, we automatically achieve the qualities of these following verses

10 A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.

11 Her husband has full confidence in her

and lacks nothing of value.

12 She brings him good, not harm,

all the days of her life.

13 She selects wool and flax

and works with eager hands.

14 She is like the merchant ships,

bringing her food from afar.

15 She gets up while it is still dark;

she provides food for her family
and portions for her servant girls.

16 She considers a field and buys it;

out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.

17 She sets about her work vigorously;

her arms are strong for her tasks.

18 She sees that her trading is profitable,

and her lamp does not go out at night.

19 In her hand she holds the distaff

and grasps the spindle with her fingers.

20 She opens her arms to the poor

and extends her hands to the needy.

21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household;

for all of them are clothed in scarlet.

22 She makes coverings for her bed;

she is clothed in fine linen and purple.

23 Her husband is respected at the city gate,

where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.

24 She makes linen garments and sells them,

and supplies the merchants with sashes.

25 She is clothed with strength and dignity;

she can laugh at the days to come.

26 She speaks with wisdom,

and faithful instruction is on her tongue.

27 She watches over the affairs of her household

and does not eat the bread of idleness.

28 Her children arise and call her blessed;

her husband also, and he praises her:

29 "Many women do noble things,

but you surpass them all."

30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;

but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.

31 Give her the reward she has earned,

and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

- Proverbs 31:10-31

What are your aspirations? Do want a family yes? If not how come? What kind of life do you see yourself living?